Groom's Cake? The Cigar Bar.

The first time I ever heard of a groom's cake was watching Steel Magnolia's when they made the Armadillo cake with the grey icing. Groom's cakes aren't typically something we have here, but I suppose the sentiment is to have something at the wedding that signifies that the wedding isn't all about you :).  I read about the idea of having a cigar bar at the reception for the groom and quite liked it. Basically, at the bar or somewhere at the reception set up a little counter of cigars & matches and invite the gentlemen (or ladies) at the wedding to enjoy. And hey its a nice way to introduce those diner matches I'm collecting.